So we decided to start our family very shortly after buying our house, although not yet engaged or married. Reason being I felt all along that I would have trouble conceiving. I was 25, my husband 28. Call it woman’s intuition, negative attitude or panic-I truly felt that it wouldn’t be straight forward for me.
That being said, I also really thought that first month that I was pregnant. Sure I was off the pill so of course I was now pregnant. I also thought this on the second month and third. I had it all planned out-the announcement, the baby’s room. In fact the ‘baby’s room’ was known as and called the baby’s for the next six years before it actually became the baby’s room lol
After six months, the woman’s intuition got louder as the expectation and excitement grew smaller. Off to the family planning clinic I went-just so that they could give me the all clear and say it takes time. But no….my woman’s intuition was spot on. The day I returned, alone, for our results, the doctor walked in to the room with my file. Written on a yellow post it right there on the front of my file were the words “IVF NEEDED”.
And that was the moment that my life changed forever…….